One Word 2017: Intentional

Note: It is hard to believe that it is 2017 and hard to believe that it has now been over a year since I blogged consistently. Here’s my first attempt at blogging monthly this year! It was a good reflective practice for me and I want to get back into it. Enjoy!

in·ten·tion·al – adjective;
1. done on purpose; deliberate

In 2015 I started my one word tradition with mindfulness, and it really guided my habits to make me a more mindful person. In 2016, I chose wander and although I never got around to blogging about it, I did enjoy being a little more adventurous and maybe I can recap it in a future blog post.

It was not easy to pick one word to guide my actions and focus in 2017. The past year has been exciting and full of challenges. I was promoted at Elon into a new job that I love and started supervising full-time staff for the first time. I taught a section of Elon’s first year seminar (Elon 101). I accepted a bigger leadership position in the Junior League of Greensboro that takes up a lot of my time (but is also a lot of fun!). I am dealing with an injury and can not run as much as I used to, but I picked up a new workout routine (Kayla Itsines BBG) that brings me a ton of happiness. I have this habit of doing the most; of doing everything. I am filling my days with things that make me happy, things that make me smile, things that make others happy, things that I hope are making a difference, BUT when I sat down to really think about all I have accomplished and all that I do, I wondered: am I doing all of these things with purpose?

“That was the day she made herself the promise to live more from intention and less from habit”

The word intentional on a picture of a dock and a lakeDuring 2017 I will be more intentional about:

making decisions for me
strengthening relationships
making memories (not just for the gram)
becoming a better person
reading one book a month
reflecting on life before it passes me by
blogging once a month (to help with the reflection thing)
not just living through habit

I will:

Eliminate the “fluff”
Do what matters
Be conscious, willful, and purposeful
Spend less time mindlessly scrolling through social media, and spend more time on my health, wellness, and professional goals
Pay attention
Do one thing at a time, less multitasking
Live an intentional life

I am excited! Did you choose one word for 2017? Make new resolutions or set ambitious goals? If so, please share in the comments

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My Journey to Mindfulness: Yoga

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In 2015 I committed to focus on mindfulness. In an effort to improve my awareness of the present moment and strengthen my mind, body, and soul I decided to incorporate yoga into my weekly routine. It was not until I tried yoga that I learned how challenging it is for me to be still and experience the present.

My mind is almost always going 100 miles per hour. I have a hard time taking a break and doing nothing (for better and for worse). Mindfulness is important because it brings the individual back to the people and events surrounding them. Elon offers a wonderful wellness program for employees that includes yoga twice a week, so I was able to ease into beginner yoga classes starting in January.

During yoga practice you are asked to clear your mind of all thoughts and focus on your breathing. Do you know what happened when I started attending these classes? I would get to class, stretch out on my mat, and then start thinking about work, meetings later that day, and my plans after work. I would be thinking about my friends and my love life (or lack thereof) – I found a way to think about everything BUT my breathing. It is very hard to turn off the mind! Over time, and through the words of the teacher, I have learned to let these wandering thoughts come into my mind and then flow out of my mind.

It is a work in progress, but consistently practicing yoga has helped me be better at living in the present moment. When my mind wanders I am most often worrying about something, so I try hard to live in the present moment and soak in everything that is happening around me. There’s other positives too: a few months in I was able to flip my dog! Yoga is giving me strength – in mind, body, and soul.

How is your year going? What have you done to focus on your one word for 2015?

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2014 Goal Recap

2014 was my second year setting specific goals to accomplish over the span of 12 months. 2014 was also a year of change and transition; I graduated from the University of Georgia with my master’s in education, moved back to North Carolina, and accepted a job at Elon University. I am proud of what I accomplished and excited to build off this success in 2015!

Health/Fitness
It turns out that 900 miles was a very ambitious goal for 2014. I finished the year with 780 total miles. The Athens Road Runners group was part of my Georgia family, and it was hard to leave them at the end of graduate school. I also miss my best friend and running partner, Evan. We used to run together 3-4 times a week and those daily story rant sessions were the highlight of my week.

When I moved to Greensboro, I found a wonderful community of runners called the Downtown Dashers. We run together twice a week and meeting them at 5 am has become part of my weekly routine. In December I started running with a new friend – Meg – and really enjoy getting to know her on the miles we spend together! Running has changed from a solo to social activity for me.

Completed 2 half marathons:

 

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City of Oaks with Karrah

Mistletoe finisher picture
Mistletoe Half Marathon with my dad!

For the majority of the year I worked out four times a week, but I did not go to the gym once a week as planned. Strength training is missing from my life and I plan to make it more of a focus this year.

Personal
Blogging was consistent in 2014 until I moved and started my new job (you see a pattern here yet?). I sent at least 5 handwritten notes a month and really enjoyed it. Now that I have friends all over the country I enjoy taking time out of a busy week to send them a handwritten note.

One of my graduation presents was a Kindle that I absolutely love, and it really helped me meet my goal to read more this year. I exceeded my goal of 12 books by reading 15 in 2014. Most of this reading happened after graduation.

Professional
The best thing about 2014 is the fact that I met all of my professional goals. I started at Elon (in the functional area and region that I was searching for) the first week of June. I also finished the Strong Signals curriculum with CAMPUSPEAK and facilitated 3 workshops – it’s hard to believe how much has happened in the last 12 months!

2014 was an incredible year. How did you do with your goals for last year? Post in the comments and let’s celebrate 2014 together. Thanks for reading!

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One Word 2015: Mindfulness

mind·ful·ness, noun
  1. the quality or state of being conscious or aware of something.
  2. a mental state achieved by focusing one’s awareness on the present moment, while calmly acknowledging and accepting one’s feelings, thoughts, and bodily sensations, used as a therapeutic technique.

This year I am choosing one word to guide my actions and focus in 2015. If this is something you are interested in doing, check out #oneword2015 on Twitter and join me in Sam Davidson‘s challenge to come up with one focus word for the year. 2014 put me at a crossroads in some ways, and 2015 will be the first year in a very long time (20+ years) that I am not in school for any part of the year. The timing is right to be more mindful.

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“It all begins and ends in your mind. What you give power to has power over you”

During this year of mindfulness, I will:

Be non-judging
Practice moment by moment awareness and acceptance
Grow with my faith
Care more; worry less
Be patient
Pay more attention to what is happening here and now, not necessarily what is wrong or right, good or bad
Have a beginner’s mind
Approach everyday things with curiosity and savor them
Trust others
Forgive mistakes – big or small
Be generous
Show gratitude for good moments and grace for bad ones
Practice compassion
Make peace with imperfection
Embrace vulnerability by trusting others (and myself)
Accept and appreciate that things come and go
Let go
Reduce stress
Strengthen my mind, body, & soul
Re-evaluate my priorities
Realize and experience the good in me and what’s around me.
Acknowledge the bad and be wise enough to know whether or not it’s worth worrying about
Spend more time with friends, less time on my phone doing stupid things
Be present when it matters
Say what I mean, mean what I say
Care more & worry less
Do more good
Be intentional with the people I care about
Love well, live well, and realize a life more abundant is not about abundance of things but of life

Have you chosen one word for 2015? If so, please share in the comments and join Sam’s One Word Group. Cheers to 2015!

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PS – This blog post I found on Twitter helped guide my thinking about mindfulness and what it would mean for me this year.